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my older brother touched me. what can i do?Read the Full Page: my older brother touched me. what can i do? | Questions, Advice & Help AllAboutCounseling.com - 30.11.11 19:56
when i was 13 years old, my older brother (He was 14 at the time) would come to my and my sisters room and say that his was to hot. then he would lay in my bed and i would go to sleep to find that most of the time he was in a compromising state when i woke up. (i.e. it always seemed like his hands were in awkward places)
one time when he came upstairs i stayed awake to confirm what i thought was true, and when he asked if i was asleep i didn't answer. he then proceeded to unclip my bra, pull down my panties, and he did things to me. i then found out that this had been happening about once a week for months.
it was almost a year later that we found out that he had been physically and sexually abused by his older friend and had been keeping it a secret. after he was enrolled in counselling, the touching stopped. even though it stopped, i still feel extremely uncomfortable around him. my parents don't know about it and are constantly trying to put us together and make us best friends, but even being in the same room is very hard for me.
it's been a year since it had been happening, and the only person i told was my sister, and she said, "boys will be boys, don't be a drama queen."
after that i didn't feel comfortable telling anybody, i just made myself forget. but lately i have been exhibiting strongs signs of sexual-abuse induced depression. i don't want to tell my parents about it because i dont want my brother to go to juvy and i realize that he only did that after being nearly raped, but i can't pretend it didn't happen and i don't want to be alone with him, it makes me extremely uncomfortable. What Can I Do????????
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